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The headline chorus of that catchy song Flowers by Miley Cyrus speaks of relationship break up leading to realisation of self protection.
‘ we were right until we weren’t , built a home then watched it burn ‘ . Then in moment of fight back says forget the pain ‘ I can buy myself flowers , I can love myself better than you can ‘
My loving you is the internal combustion , the glue in the relationship , whether you love me reciprocally is an incidental. Loving oneself is a prerequisite for unless you can the interior well can’t be drawn upon. Taken to the extreme of course is narcissism.
This Christmas indeed any Christmas relationships get tested as we get together with the toxic , in-laws , outlaws and real bores. 2024 will see the number of people spending Christmas alone is set to double from last year and around 2 million old people ( over 65 ) will spend it alone.
Some of course prefer alone and one bedroom properties are the rage ( can anyone afford 2 bedrooms ? ) Broken Britain is breaking up and family or no family , the birth rate is falling along with GDP. The fact is according to Miley is ‘ I can love me better than you can ‘ .
I still prefer to buy my wife flowers and insure the house in case it burns , just call me old fashioned. Miley did say ‘ I didn’t want to leave you , I didn’t want to fight ‘ In there is hope and I still say buy each other flowers.
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